而不是嫌弃她用英文怎么说

你可以说 "instead of resenting her for using Engpsh"，这句话的意思是 "instead of feepng resentment towards her for using Engpsh"。

"Instead of" 是一个介词短语，意思是 "in place of; as an alternative to"，常用来表示改变计划或方向，或者提出另一种选择。

"Resenting" 是动词，意思是 "to feel or show resentment or indignation at (something)"，常用来表示对某事感到不满或生气。

下面是几个使用 "instead of" 和 "resenting" 的例句，希望能帮助你理解这两个词的用法：

Instead of getting angry, I decided to try and understand why she did it. (我决定不生气，而是试着理解她为什么这么做。)
Instead of complaining about the weather, we should be grateful for the sunshine. (我们不应该抱怨天气，而应该感激阳光。)
He resented being told what to do by his boss. (他对老板命令他做事感到不满。)
She resents being treated unfairly. (她对被不公平对待感到不满。)